I never thought about it until I was subjected to an agonizing seven hour drive up to Maine. But first off, I spent my Christmas weekend with my cousins up in Maine. I was stuck in a mini-van with my three cousins and their three kids. Not really all that confusing. One of them is Tim. He's the driver and he's married to Rebecca. They have two sons. Jett Lee, the eldest with a good three years under his belt, and then there's Nicholas Lee, the adorable often confused wailing one. And then there's my other cousin, Sau Man. She and her husband own a home up in Maine, but she has to stay in NY to give birth to her next child (a baby gir